If you are to love your neighbor as yourself, consider some random act of kindness and do this for another. Pay some portion toward the bill of the person in line behind you. Water your neighbor’s grass (probably while doing your own). In small delights, great changes are made to one’s frame of mind. Next, consider the questions you ask. Are you seeking to silence a person or to affirm their opinion? In respecting the gifts of the person in your presence, you allow the dignity God places in each person to be honored and therefore learn to love God more in the life created.